a
child's first question could be,
“what
is it?”
or
would a child think,
why
the hell did you
take
me out of such
a
warm cocoon,
where
i am fed, cared
without
the need to
lift
even a finger...
(except
maybe smile
couple
of times,
when
sonography is done)...
well,
i am drifting away
from
the question...
what
is it? Keeps happening
at
other times too..
like
when you connect
converse
with ease
and
chat for an hour...
(in
real life nobody's got time
for,
focused conversation with
a
single person, continuously ;)
well,
then you end up asking,
what
is it?
What
kind of friendship do we have
and
where would it go...
when
its a guy and you too are a guy
then
it doesnt go that way...
questions
doesnt arise..
(i.e.
If the guys are straight)
how
does it go with
girl-girl
thing..
i
really dont know now..
but
then, cant there be
a
genderless community?
Where
there are only
human-human
things?
When
you are young,
you
move on quickly
rush
into an answer
either
way..
when
you are beyond 40's
then
you tend to play
some
more mental chess (MC)..
only
difference in MC is
there
are no pawns..
they
can be called as hope,
and
you have to move them ahead
often
only 1 step at a time..
though
when you are young,
you
might get a chance
to
do a double move
though
its an option...
and
thus hope moves us ahead
and
we tend to become pawns
(or
even if we consider our self
rook,
queen or king)...
we
all have to move in the
64
square board of life...
often
unable to predict the
moves
of our partner.. or competitor
but
if taken with sporting spirit,
its
all fun..
and
play a good game,
with
zest and energy
consideration
and with fair play
its
just a life long game...
play
on!
2 comments:
i realized, one possible explanation..
to 'what is it?" question..
its 'kindred soul', or kindred spirit...
here is a dictionary meanings of word 'kindred'.. pasted below:
Meaning of KINDRED in English (i like the 3rd meaning & would like to stick to it)
1) Relationship by birth or marriage; consanguinity; affinity; kin.
2) Relatives by blood or marriage, more properly the former; relations; persons related to each other.
#3)Related; congenial; of the like nature or properties; as, kindred souls; kindred skies;
'kindred soul' or 'kindred spirit'.. (the answer to 'what is it?' question.. is one probable explanation).. i would say, 'spirit'... some kind of feel/energy which we share with each other, when we connect with others... even when we connect with nature.. (we feel the one-ness with external aspects, and our ego dissolves and we no longer feel as lonely
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