On the Internet, chatting is talking to other people who are using the Internet at the same time you are. The technology developed in 1960's.. but picked up in the 1990's. Now, could this be looked as one specific type of communication?
Basically,
verbal/oral & non-verbal (written, sign language,
kinesthetic/braille), would be 2 types, communication is segrated
into. There are formal, non-formal, etc... also, one-to-one, group
etc. Are some other types. But, as a modern phenomena, if we take
out, just the 'internet chat' as one type of communication, how will
it be analyzed?
Here, i am defining,
this 'chat' as, “2 people, typing on keyboards, rapidly, with each
other.. reading & typing text”... i am not including video
chat, and skype chat etc.. only the text chat. (keeping it very
specific, for analytical purposes).
The keyboard is
supposed to be, a computer keyboard, big in size. Of course, some
people may be able to chat rapidly, on smart phones as well, and
whatsapp has 600 million consumers. But, i am trying to keep, a big
keyboard in, to indicate, a chat, which goes on for some considerable
time... where both people are pretty fast at typing. (which means,
just saying couple of greeting &/ few lines of information is
excluded as well).
Because, the purpose
is, to figure out, what are the advantages of such a rapid text chat,
where multiple concepts are discussed, with some element of debate
included. Its like intensely discussing an idea or ideas, with
multiple insights given and taken. An idea storm or thought storm (a
friend recently told me, 'brain storming' is inappropriate term, as
its a condition which happens to epileptic patients).
How many of us, have
had this experience? Very intense chat sessions, based only on text?
(its very important to distinguish, this aspect, as, when you are
chatting this way, lots of other cues are missing... visual, voice
(tone), etc. This lack of other aspects /shades of communication can
be harmful, but it also can help to keep the focus, solely on sharing
ideas, concepts, in a rapid way. (of course, both persons should be
able to read, type, understand English (or a common typable
language), and grasp quickly and respond.
I have had great
chat sessions.. upto an hour or more.. where multiple hypothesis,
exploration, information exchange etc. Happened very quickly. (of
course, i have had massive misunderstandings, and fights as well, but
fortunately much less than the positive chats).
And, at times, i
feel, its like a computer game (video game). Some of the things,
which you are going to say, (going to do) would be familiar to you..
but what makes it all interesting is, you dont know how the other
person will react. Even if its an old friend, changes might have
happened in them, new viewpoints, beliefs, faith might have taken
place... and unexpected debates can happen.. or a question about a
small detail, which one of us would have overlooked is taken up, to
transform both the concept and ourselves happen. (and sometimes,
those chats become boring and very typical, and drag on till one of
us becomes busy with something else).
And these chat
sessions, the emotions they whip up... the way your relationship with
the other person changes... just through reading text, the other
person has written. (of course, its always good, when both have
similar level of communication, and vocabulary etc. And most
importantly, energy levels should be same.. along with free time to
be able to chat uninterrupted).
And, i often prefer,
this limited, text only medium as a communication... of course,
sometimes, i find it easier to discuss sensitive topics, without
inhibition... (it can lead to a conflict at times, but, with 2 right
people, without much insecurity issues, it can reduce lots of other
distractions and become very efficient way of communication). So,
now, i've added on the title, (text)... to be specific.
I guess, everyone
will have their own preferred ways of communication... and this is
one of mine. But, its not easy to find a partner to text chat
uninhibitedly.. so i resort to this.. blogging ;)
wish i could blog,
some of my best chats... but, i am too lazy to save them... and too
excited to think of using it for blog. So, no worries ;)
1 comment:
online text chatting is a good medium allowing 2 people to gradually develop trust on each other.voicetone, body language etc are missing still such chats have lot of transperancy & level of comfortness.
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